Springing into Action (Foxlet 2: 16 Weeks)

Whoosh! And just like that, it’s basically Spring! Feels like it happened quicker than a snap of Thanos’ fingers, but there’s no denying it: it’s mid-March, I’m 16 weeks pregnant (today!), and it’s time to start makin’ some big moves in our life (both figuratively and literally!) But first, a recap of what’s been a-going on over the past few weeks.

Penny and I just returned from another fantastic trip down to the Atlanta area to see my sister and her littles, and we had so much fun! We went to this exhibit called Candytopia, which is as great as it sounds: a giant museum/love letter to candy.

There was free candy in every room, lots of very cool, very impressive candy scultures and art installations, and had super fun, Instagrammable photo opps galore. We had an awesome time!

Candytopia travels from city to city, so right now I think it’s in Atlanta and Minneapolis, and is opening in Dallas soon. I highly recommend checking it out if you’re in one of those places!

Outside of our candy-coated field trip, there was just a lot of general fun times spent with my sister, bro-in-law, nieces, and nephew. You know that getting Penny together with her cousin Alex (just three weeks older than her!) is like my whole reason for being, ahaha. “A-leh” is literally one of her favorite words, she says it like 8 times a day.

We’re always sad to have to say goodbye at the end of a trip, but luckily this one will be (particularly) short-lived, as my sister is bravely coming up here with all three kiddos during Mia’s Spring Break in just a couple weeks!

Penny also had her 18-month checkup at the pediatrician just before we left on our trip, and is doing great.

She’s around 27 lbs (got weighed on the big kid scale for the first time!) and 34″ tall, which puts her in the 92nd and 97th percentiles, respectively! At this rate she’ll end up even taller than me when she’s fully grown! (I’m 5’10” and Sean is 6’1″ if anyone was curious.)

And I guess that brings us to our update on how the other little Foxlet is doing, eh? As I mentioned above, I’m 16 weeks pregnant today, and I’m actually (shockingly!) feeling pretty okay! I finally feel like I’ve almost gotten over the string of terrible colds and sinus infections that have plagued since literally Day 1 of this pregnancy (watch, I’m totally gonna wake up sick again tomorrow now that I’ve said that, lol.), and I’m hanging in there.

As I think I’ve mentioned before, my bad pregnancy symptoms like nausea and vomiting have been much less severe this time around (thank GOODNESS), and though I have still been nauseous it seems to have eased up in particular just this past week or so. Huzzah! Food is still kind of hit or miss with me (I have not gained any weight yet), but in general I’m happy not to have spent as much time feeling truly miserable.

I’ve got a bit of heartburn and am still trying to make piece with the skin issues this pregnancy has brought me, but the biggest obstacles I’ve been battling this time are exhaustion and sleep disruption. Which, I know, you’d think that dealing with the former would mean I’d be sleeping better since I’m so tired, right? But sadly, it doesn’t seem that my body understand that, haha. But I’m rallying through and while I maintain my stance that pregnancy is not exactly the best time ever, I remain very grateful that things have been generally more mild this time around.

I think I’ve already felt a few little bubbles and bursts from Foxlet 2 — those first little movements — but it’s nothing super significant yet. I go in for my 16 week checkup on Tuesday, which I normally would be looking forward to but they are monitoring me very closely for preeclampsia this pregnancy (since I developed it late in my pregnancy with Penny), so I have to do one of those super glamorous 24-hour urine collection tests (I’ll do another one later in my pregnancy so they can compare) and get a whole bunch of extra blood drawn. Wheeeee!

At least the weather has been frickin’ beautiful these past couple of days! I’ve been really enjoying getting to spend a bit of time in the sunshine with my little bean. It’s helping me manage my stress levels which are admittedly at a bit of an all-time high as I’m dealing with the last bit of exciting-slash-terrifying news that’s been piling on as of late: we’re moving!

Not far, though. We are in the process of packing up our little house to put on the market, and purchasing my parents’ house in Falls Church! We’ll be living in my old family home, literally half a mile from my brother and sis-in-law (Penny and Marnie will be able to go to the same school!!), while my parents will be downsizing into a condo.

We’re really excited about being able to have more space for our growing family, as well feeling super fortunate to be able to move back to Falls Church City, but of course, there’s the simple fact that moving is a huge PITA even when you’re not pregnant and have a toddler, lol. I just keep looking around and thinking, how do we have so much STUFF?! The timeline feels impending as well since we want to be able to list our house during the prime selling timeframe (which is late April/early May), so I’m already feeling the crunch.

Anyway, I think that pretty much brings us up to date on the major things (and boy, do they feel major!) that have been happening lately. Hope you all have a fantastic weekend, and I’ll try to get back in here with another update before another entire month goes by, heh. Cheers!

Plot Twist!

Oh, hey there!

So I know that I’ve been lacking in the blogging department lately… just haven’t really had a whole lot of energy for tackling the whole write-about-my-life-thing, and it turns out there’s a good reason for that.

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Yep, that’s right, Baby Foxlet #2 is making his or her debut this August! Funnily enough, my due date is Penny’s actual birthday — can’t make this stuff up. Happy birthday, kid! You got one year of solo celebrating and THAT’S IT.

Those of you who followed my pregnancy journey the first time around might remember that it wasn’t exactly a joyful, magical, glowing experience for me. In fact, I was plagued with intense morning sickness (actually all day long) for the first 21 weeks, which then sidled right into debilitating pelvic girdle pain and sciatica, culminating with me developing preeclampsia and having to be induced early at 37 weeks. Fun ride, right?

Now, don’t get me wrong, I’d do it all over again, exactly the same way, a hundred times over for my wonderful baby girl, but I’m extremely happy to be able to report that so far (knock on wood), my symptoms have been considerably less severe than last time. I’ve still been pretty nauseous all day, but it’s been much more manageable, I’ve been puking far less, and I’ve only lost about 6 pounds as opposed to the 15 I lost in my first trimester last time, haha.

New symptoms unfortunately include having TERRIBLE skin issues this time around, and just being way, way, way more exhausted than last time (hmm, wonder why that could be?)

I have to admit that this blessed event did end up coming as a bit of a surprise, but now that we’ve had some time to wrap our heads around it and not freak out about the logistics of what having a toddler and a newborn will be like, I’m starting to get pretty jazzed. It’s most exciting when I start thinking about Penny as a big sister — I know you can’t really predict these things, but I really do think she’s going to be a good one!

Big sister training is definitely already underway — we got her a baby doll and she’s OBSESSED with it, she carries it around and sits it up in her old Bumbo chair, tries to change its diaper and feed it pizza and flush it down the toilet… okay, so we still have some work to do there.

I’ve been trying to express to her that there’s a baby in mommy’s tummy although every time I tell her that, she just tries to plunge her hand deep into my belly button while yelling “BABY BABY BABY” at the top of her lungs so I’m not quite sure she gets it.

Whether or not she cognitively understands what’s happening, both Penny and Daxter definitely seem to know that something’s changing on a emotional level. Both toddler and doggo have been clingy AF lately, which is not in either of their personalities, lol.

Anyway, that pretty much covers the big news in our lives right now! Lots more big changes are still to come, but after a couple of initial big freakouts in the first few weeks since we found out, I’m trying to remain optimistic about things from here on out. After all, we’ve already managed to successfully keep one tiny human alive for this long, what’s one more? Right? RIGHT?? Heh… oh boy. Words of wisdom and encouragement are DEFINITELY welcome here. But thank you to all of you who already offered your congratulations on social media, y’all are the best. <3

Happy Hearts Day!

Happy Valentine’s Day, friends! I know it’s been actual ages since I’ve popped in here with a post, and believe me, I’ve started the process of opening up a new post more times than I can count, but never seem to quite make it to the actual writing-the-post part. And then, you know, it always seems to kind of compound, because then by the next time you think, oh, I’m ready to write a post, it’s that much harder to start. Because so much time has passed, and so many things have happened, it’s hard to know where to begin.

Anyway, all of that to say, this isn’t building up to anything other than a Happy Valentine’s Day post, which is fine, because I *do* hope you have a great Valentine’s Day! Butttt, I promise, I’ll be back with actual life updates and cute Penny pics and all that good stuff soon.;)

Hello 2019!

Even though I can still hardly believe it, we’re in a brand new year, here, folks!

January to December 2018

I didn’t get around to blogging as much as I wanted to at the end of the year, mainly due to all of the crazy, hectic, and awesome holiday and family activity that happened in the final weeks of 2019… coupled with the most awful, terribly, horrible, no good cold that I’ve been battling for ETERNITY (or at least, like, 10 days now!).

So, yes, the sickness is tres lame, but at least our holiday was great! My whole family spent over a week down at my sister’s house in the greater Atlanta area, and although there’s really nothing chill about a household filled with 8 adults, 5 kids 5-and-under, and 5 dogs, it was still a relatively low-key and very pleasant holiday.

Sean and I actually survived the drive down to Atlanta with Penny and the three dogs (our two + my brother’s) okay, although traffic getting out of the DC area put a serious crimp in our style and added a few extra hours to the trip, so we ended up stopping overnight around Charlotte and finishing the drive the following day. Not what I was hoping for, but all’s well that ends well!

I had made the heinous mistake of agreeing to run a Christmas Eve 5K with my sister and one of her friends a few months ago, and while I’d been kinda-sorta training a wee bit, I definitely overestimated my abilities, lol. It was NOT my best showing. But, whatever, I did it, and it was the first run I’ve completed in I can’t even tell you how long, so even though it was a horrifying showcase of my complete lack of stamina and cardiovascular abilities, I’m still, like, kinda proud? Idk.

Anyway, everything after that was pretty much smooth sugary, Christmas-tastic sailing — cookie decorating, Christmas-movie-watching, gingerbread-house making, carol-singing, cooking, eating, playing with the kiddos, taking innumerable photos of everyone, and constantly wearing matching EVERYTHING… pretty much all my favorite things!

After the rest of my family returned home, Sean & I capped off our visit with a trip to the Georgia Aquarium with my sister, nieces, and nephew.

Yeah, I wasn’t gonna pay $30 for this picture, but it’s the only proof we got of all of us being there together hahaha.

It was actually kind of an insane thing to do, considering we went on the SATURDAY of a holiday weekend (before New Year’s), and like, every other person who lives in Georgia also decided to the do the same. But despite the crowds it was a great time nonetheless. We got to see the dolphin show, which I’ve never actually seen despite having visited the Aquarium twice before, and Penny was super fascinated by the underwater tunnel.

And thankfully, our drive home was pretty smooth and uneventful! It went much quicker than the drive down since we hit absolutely no traffic, and the dogs were really well-behaved on the way back. It was a little bit trickier since most of our trip down was at night, after Penny’s bedtime, and this time it was mostly during the day. So Penny didn’t really nap as much as I was hoping, but I think I still way preferred driving during the day. Even with her being awake, she’s such a good little kid, she didn’t protest too much until we were almost at the end — we definitely got lucky!

But, alas, being home hasn’t been all that wonderful since, as I have mentioned like 1032849 times, I’ve been sick aaaand it’s definitely thrown me for a loop. ‘Cause I mean, you know, being sick sucks on its own, but it sucks doubly when you’re just coming back from a huge break from work and trying to figure out how to get back on the horse there, and then it sucks TRIPLY when you throw a tiny human into the mix… but! I’m trying to claw myself back to a place of normalcy — both health, work, and routine-wise. Our suitcases are 100% still sitting on the floor of our bedroom, totally still packed, and I’ve basically gotten nothing but the bare minimum done since our return from Georgia, but hey, there’ll be time, right?

I’m holding out hope for a magical burst of productivity and energy once I’m really feeling better — which is why I’m waiting to watch Tidying Up with Marie Kondo on Netflix until I’m feeling better too, because I’m counting on becoming possessed by the house purging spirit and want to get rid of our entire household of stuff as soon as I queue up the first episode. *fingers crossed*

Anyway, I hope that you all had an awesome holiday, a wonderful end to your year, and are jumping into 2019 with a sense of excitement, resolve, and/or contentment! I’m hoping to be able to hold onto all three sentiments as we move into this new year… we’ll see!

Holiday Hubbub!

Hi and hello there! I hope everyone is having a fantastic lead-in to Christmas week! This month has been a complete and utter whirlwind so far, but in the best possible way! I’ve been staying really busy with work, family, time with friends, and gearing up for our trip to my sister’s for Christmaaaaas!

Somehow despite the craziness that everyone is dealing with, we found time to ring in my brother Ben’s 35th birthday with a little family dinner celebration. Marnie is so flippin’ cute! I can’t wait to see her experience her first Christmas.

Other festive celebrations included getting together with a group of my wonderful mommy friends for a playdate and surprisingly successful cookie decorating party!

Not quite as successful was the attempted group photo of the kiddos, but, hey, at least we get points for trying?

And since we’re doing Christmas with my family again this year, we also had a little mini Christmas dinner with Sean’s family last weekend. We’ll also be seeing them again for Christmas Part II when we get back, but Sean’s mom had a couple of gifts for Penny to open (she still doesn’t really “get” opening gifts, but I had fun opening them! Haha), and we had a damn fine dinner. Plus, the Foxes always have their house decorated so perfectly for the holidays!

It hasn’t all been sunny and positive and fun festive things, though. Unfortunately on Monday Harry had an accident where he tore one of his toenails off, and apparently doggy foot wounds bleed a LOT (it seriously looked like a murder scene), so I totally flipped out and rushed him to the pup ER. Luckily, he’s okay but has to wear the cone of shame for a while so he doesn’t continue to mess with it. My poor old man dog!

But back on the positive side, I also had the opportunity to attend our very first Yelp Holiday Party with the new DC office! My fellow community managers and besties, Mike, Kimberly (and our boss Tara), have always had a little lunch celebration of our own in years past (and we did so again this year), but it is kind of a cool perk of having a “real” office here now that we also get a “real” holiday party!

My final work events are officially done with for the year, so this week has been primarily about wrapping up the year and getting ready (and mentally prepared) for the road trip down to Atlanta! It’s going to be Penny’s longest (by FAR) car trip yet, plus we’re taking all three members of the Schnauzer Squad…. should be an adventure!

 

I asked for tips on how to survive the trip on Instagram, and got some amazing ideas, so THANK YOU if you’re one of the ones who responded. We’re going to try to do it one go (with contingencies and backup plans, lol), so I got a bunch of new toys and books to offer Penny throughout the trip, and we will be loaded up with sooooo many snacks… it’s gonna be fine, right? RIGHT??

Honestly, I’m not even sure why I’m so nervous about the trip. It’s not even like I’ve never made this drive before! I’ve done it with my sister and HER kids (and even her dogs once or twice!), but for some reason now that it’s gonna be with Sean and Penny and my gaggle of high-strung terriers, I’m feeling pretty anxious.

But hey, it’ll all work out, right? I mean, just look at this face! And, of course, I’m really really looking forward to being together with my WHOLE family for Christmas again this year. Bring on the gingerbread house and cookie decorating and present wrapping and eggnog drinking and all the general holiday hubbub! Also, my sister and I are running a 5K on Christmas Eve so, you know, if you’re gonna be sending good thoughts into the universe for our road trip, please add a couple extra ones for that, lollllll cry.

I hope that you all have the very happiest of holidays, a very merry Christmas, and an absolutely wonderful New Year if I don’t make it back for another update before then!